Why do people look for the small ugly patches of the beautiful painting, instead of appreciating the beauty it portrays?
Only when the heart doubts what it believes, you see the ugly side. Especially in a relationship, you have many doubts and instead of questioning the party involved, you tend to test that person in your own way. The results are never going to be acceptable to the heart. Unless you have a stable mindset to accept it. When in this situation, the most reasonable thing to do is to NOT test your acceptance level as this will risk the relationship you have. Yet, people still tend to do so. In the name of testing the opposite party's sincerity or some say 'ignorence'. At the end, this would lead to causing ill filling in hearts of both parties.
To me, its a mere testing of the trust between the two. When 'trust' exist solidly, there will be no room for this to arise at any point of time. Why allow trivial matters to disrupt your relationship when there are lots more to come in life?
Staying positive always helps. You get to enjoy the beauty of the painting which is the relationhip...appreciate the happiness it provides..and overcome any feeling of negativity...At least, that is how i chose to see it.
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