All this while I thought I knew almost everything about life. But this journey towards just preparing for the wedding, opened my eyes to many things which was right in front of me, that at times I failed to appreciate. I saw those who love me for who I am, stood by me, giving me all the support and strength when I needed it most. At the same time, I also saw the other side of those same people, being defensive, inconsiderate and irrational when it comes to some of their decisions.
Frustration can be caused by various speech, action and
feelings resulting in various speech, action and feelings. The root cause of
this frustration many at times is hard to be highlighted due to family ties.
Having experienced a few incidents throughout this wedding
preparation has made me realize this and accept it that unfortunately this is
the case in my life now. I don’t have a choice but to learn how to manage this and
at the same time ensure that decisions made for me and my partner are solely
our call and never influenced by either side of family,
1 more month for our engagement and 4 more months towards
the wedding. More challenges coming our way as it gets closer. I only pray that
my partner and I will continue to have the strength we have and also stick to
each other as a team without taking sides of either party. This would be our 1st
challenge as we take our big leap into ‘marriage’ along with hopefully lesser
challenges after this.
But it makes perfect sense now when people say... ’marriage
aint easy’ but working together as team makes it 'perfect'!
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