5 ways to...

...Stop feeling insecure
1. Stop trying to read minds
2. Stop looking for perfect relationships
3. Stop judging current relationship based on past ones
4. Stop inventing problems that do not exist
5. Stop focusing on the negative

...Improve my life
1. Feel confident of myself and not allowing anyone to break it
2. Have my own friends
3. Stop relying on only one person for everything I need emotionally (friends can help too)
4. Focus on my hobbies/ what makes me happy
5. Appearing to weak make another over rule you

Happy, Confident & Worth it! (18 Mar 2014)

18 March 2014 (Tuesday, 10.44am)

All I seek for is just to feel like I am good in at least something. Maybe the way I do things may not be perfect enough for the other, but that does not mean I am useless. Expecting others to make you feel important, giving least priority of your wants… is the biggest mistake we all do. Don’t blame others for feeling this way. Stop feeling small, push away that feeling, keep it all aside, step up, do what makes YOU feel important, do what makes you smile. Eventually, you came into this world alone and you had only yourself to turn too. So, do all it takes to make YOU feel HAPPY, CONFIDENT and WORTH IT :-)

38 days...(12 Mar 2014)

12 March 2014 (Wednesday)

Exactly 38 days since our wedding. How things are? So far so good. But we are back to reality, which means lesser time together, more time to ponder about ourselves, more time to miss the presence of the other at the same time enjoy the space we have.  Rather than thinking about what ‘we’ are going to be or where ‘we’ are heading too, it has given me time to think about what ‘I’ am going to have to cope with, what ‘I’ need to improve on and how ‘I’ am going to ensure that our journey together will be a happy one.

Nevertheless, it is a beautiful journey with different challenges to face, getting 2 different people to decide on one thing. Having a partner who listens and understands you is a huge deal. I am glad he is such. Looking forward to everything that lies ahead.